There's an expression we use often when we make mistakes:
"I'm only human".
We are giving the excuse that everyone makes mistakes by saying that.
Therefore, all the failures we committee are okay,
just because...everyone does them.?!
No, definitely NO!
Not a good excuse or even a decent one.
Mistakes are never OK,
but they can be fixed or at least amended. learned from.
Not judging who committees them,
its impossible for a human being to not.
But we have to learn from them
so we can prevent them.
It is "OK" to to commit them as long we take responsibility,
for them and our flaws.
Saying "Sorry" but not meaning it or not intending to improve our actions,
will only cause a lack of trust
and incapability to develop any kind of relationship.
Saying "I am Sorry" and admitting that we did something wrong
is the first step to self-improvement.
Being unable to apologize is a recipe for a fragile and failed relation.
Saying "I am Sorry" gives a relationship the strength for both partners
(in a friendship, love related or even family) to overcome the mistakes.
Never be ashamed of apologizing!
In fact...
Be ashamed if you cant!
That yes is a better excuse than the 1st one I indicated.
© Christelle Ferreira 2011
GUY: the day before yesterday i was fine, yesterday i was
really fine but today i feel great
GIRL: ...
you talk about the most unimportant things as if nothing
had happened. but still, ''forgive me'' is all that you can't say
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6 comments:
When you finaly look into my eyes you will see that would never intentionaly hurt you, betray you, befriend you, scorn you, hide you, neglect you, despise you or dis-respect you in anyway. When you see in my eyes, no words will make sense as all there will be is that moment. I love you, be safe. You are always in my heart xxx
A serio?!
Continuas com este blog?? :')
Niceeee...
Fizes-te super bem.. ;)
eu continuei com o blog..
O meu também é o mesmo desde 2006.. :')...
Maior Força pra a tua vida.
http://mcdyzito.blogspot.com/2007/04/blog-post.html
Hehehe.. vês.. :D
Ha sim.. fazes bem..
Passado é passado..
Move on.. :')
Ninguem irá fazer a tua vida por ti..
Só estava a mostrar que é o mesmo blog que tenho :D....
Mais uma vez... concordo.
é importante saber pedir desculpa, ter essa dignidade, mas as pessoas não podem fazer o que bem lhes da na telha pedir desculpa e fica tudo bem, porque nao fica! ha erros toleraveis e ha erros incorrigiveis, que magoam a pessoa e nao basta pedir desculpa, por vezes basta um erro desses e mais valia esquecer q a pessoa existe... ha pessoas q nao crescem mesmo, estao habituadas a vida facil, a ter tudo q qerem, a passar por cima das pessoas sem pensar seqer, o pior é qnd magoam com a noçao que estao a magoar e mesmo assim o fazem...la esta, entendem que dizer "desculpa" basta, mas nao basta...
desculpa a invasao... n resisti. vou-me calar q so me sai babuseiras :P
beijinho
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